Shifting My Approach

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My whole process started to morph. I realized the key was putting myself, my actions, and my choices right in the center of the question. Here’s how I started to break it down:

  • No More Yes/No: I completely ditched questions that could only be answered with a “yes” or “no.” Those just led to more confusion.
  • Focus on “What” and “How”: I moved to questions like “What do I need to understand about this situation?” or “How can I best navigate this challenge?” These forced the cards (and me) to give me some actual, usable info.
  • Break Down Big Decisions: Instead of asking about the whole darn decision, I started breaking it into smaller pieces. If I was deciding between two job offers, I wouldn’t ask, “Which job should I take?” I’d ask separate questions:
    • “What are the unseen challenges if I take Job A?”
    • “What strengths do I need to bring to the table to succeed in Job B?”
    • “What aspects of my current self might hold me back if I pursue Job A?”
    • “What would be the emotional impact of choosing Job B a year from now?”
  • Look for Internal Guidance: I started asking things like, “What subconscious fears are influencing my hesitation?” or “What untapped potential within me can I bring to this decision?” This was huge. It shifted the focus from external forces to my own power.
  • Identify Obstacles and Opportunities: “What is currently blocking my path forward in this project?” or “What unexpected opportunities might arise if I commit to this direction?” These types of questions got me looking for practical things I could address or leverage.

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